AZAB ungodly WIFE IN HUSBAND ~ The purpose of a marriage is to create a tendency (tranquility), compassion, and love. For a wife will be conditioning the eye, and tranquilizers at a time when problems arise.
However, if the wife is ungodly again rebel against her husband, the address of destruction are in front of the eye. He no longer be conditioning the heart, but into disaster and hell for her husband.
Due to the enormity of Azab disobedience to Parents
Allah says, "And among the signs of His power is that He created for you wives of your kind alone, that you tend to be and feel at ease to him and made him among you a sense of love and sayang.Sesungguhnya that such indeed are signs for those who reflect. "(QS. Ar-Rum: 21)
Iniquity a wife to her husband so many varieties and forms, like berating her husband, raised voices front of her husband, making her husband irritated, face sullen front of her husband, refused the invitation husband for sexual intercourse, hating family, husband, ungrateful (deny) kindness, and giving husband, did not want to take care of housekeeping husband, cheating, dating behind her husband, out of the house without the husband's permission, and so on.
Allah wa -Subhanahu Ta'la- had threatened the rebellious wife to her husband through the oral His Messenger when he -Shollallahu 'alaihi wasallam said, "Allah will not see a wife who does not want to thank you for the kindness of her husband when he is always in need her husband ". [HR. An-Nasa'iy in Al-Kubro (9135 & 9136), Al-Bazzar in Al-Musnad (2349), Al-Hakim in Al-Mustadrok (2771)
This type of woman like many around us. Tired husband who worked hard every day to feed their children and meet their needs, but they just keep bitching and are not satisfied with the income suaminya.Ia always comparing her to others, so that it becomes a heavy burden for her husband. So do not be surprised if hell is filled with women like this.
As word of the Prophet -Shollallahu 'alaihi wasallam
"It has been shown hell to me, I see the majority of the residents are women, they have Kufr (reject)" Some people are asking, "whether they are Kufr (reject) Allah?" Rasullah -Shollallahu 'alaihi wasallam replied, "No, they deny ( goodness) husband. Had you always do good to one of them throughout his life, and he saw something that was not pleasing, she (the wife of sin) would say, "I did not ever see the good in you". [HR. Bukhariy in his Shohih (29), and Muslim in his Saheeh (907)]
From this hadith, we already know how great and regal rights necessary for a husband and wife to the Prophet -Shollallahu 'alaihi wasallam once said,
"If I may not order someone to bow down to the other, will undoubtedly commanded a prostrate wife to her husband". [HR. At-Tirmidziy in As-Sunan (1159),
This is a threat that is very hard for women disobedient because disobedience was the cause of charity utterly rejected his prayer on God's side. He prayed simply perform the obligation before God. As for the reward, then he will not get it, other than the tired and tired of it. Wal'iyadzu billahmin dzalik. Among the forms of iniquity wife to husband, a wife's reluctance to meet her biological necessities. Reluctance a wife to serve her husband, and the husband is angry and annoyed because the angels curse rebellious wife like this.
-Shallallahu Prophet 'alaihi wa sallam said,
"If a husband to take his (her coitus) to bed, and his wife was reluctant, husband and overnight in anger to him, then the angels will curse his wife until morning". [HR. Al-Bukhoriy Bad'il Kholq Book (3237), and Muslim in Kitab al-Nikah (1436)]
A husband when she took care of biological (sexual intercourse) of his wife, the wife can not refuse her husband's intent, even he must try as much as possible meet his business, although he was tired or busy with some business.
-Shallallahu Prophet 'alaihi wa sallam said,
"For the sake of (Allah) The soul of Muhammad in His Hand, a wife will not fulfill his rights Robb that he would fulfill the right of her husband. Although her husband asked her (for air-coitus), while he was in sekedup, then she (the wife) should not be prevented ". [HR. Ibn Majah in Kitab al-Nikah (1853).
-Shallallahu Prophet 'alaihi wa sallam said, "It hurt him a wife in the world, but the wife of the angel would say," Do not hurt him. May Allah hostile. He (the husband) only guest at your side; almost alone he will leave towards us ".
[HR. At-Tirmidziy Kitab Ar-Rodho '(1174), and Ibn Majah in Kitab al-Nikah (2014).
Such is the danger of a woman doing insubordination to her husband, which did not want to obey her husband in cases ma'ruf (be) according to the shari'ah.
Hopefully the women who rebel against her husband wanted to return serve, and repent before his death. On the day of regret that no longer useful to him.
MAY BE USEFUL..
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